Thursday, June 22, 2006
Morning...
Dun feel like going to work..my left eye is in pain wen i blink it. Mayb to much staring the monitor..lolx Anw watz my topic for today?? well i will talk abt ...jengx3 relationship..hehe ok go
After a long ride frm tampines- bouna vista dis morning finally i gt a topic to talk abt today.
Recently dis week i will nvr miss too cross path dis malay couple. Well dey r working at the same building as me too so yah.. first of all they are married shld b in the mid 30s. i tink already having a family.. i find dem veri sweet n i adore dem..y? so here goes..
Every Morning i saw dem, n dey will do the usual thing..that is after alightin the MRT the hubby will hold his wife hands. To me that is very sweet and i adore that. By seeing that, it show their love is still alive and keep on growing. what im trying to say here is now our generation single ppl like us somehow is diff. u guys shld already gone thru a relationship or mayb havin a one right now..but how deep is our love to each other? As for me,all relationship deres is high and low tide(who doesnt). So by seeing that couple juz make me jealous. They are still holding hands even after marriage..!! imagine dat.. i rarely get this..
So far in all my relationships there will be a 'honeymoon period' (the 1st mth) is wat i wld called it where everythink is so great. We hold hands, hugs each other, saying i love u & i miss u so many times before we putting down the phone..etc..
den there is the 'bittermoon period'(3rd mth onwards) where
miscommunication,misunderstanding,fights,argues,tears and pain going on..where is the love? No more holding hands,no more hugs,no more i love u or miss u..it is slowly fading away bit by bit...till one hav to give in and the other to forgive and forget..and still the problem coming up again n again..till one cannot take it n ask for a break up..SNAP.. dis part one hav to uphold the LOVE n persude the other to HOLD on..dis is wat i wld called sticking wif each other no matter wat happens(good or bad). But wat if both is strongheaded or things r to complicated n juz break up..? mayb dey r juz nt meant to be..
i really admire the olden days where their love is pure true n dedicated. Dey onli choose one n dat one is the veri one is gonna b by their side till death will apart dem. So as for me, Dun b afraid to b in love but choosing the right one is veri important.
Ask urself is he/she the one who gonna keep on holding ur hand tight
be by ur side no matter in good or bad times?
If not..den NEXT person plz.. *winkz*
-any1 wanna join me to bangkok on 1-3 sept? tix $220 or lesser..
-Scary Movie 4 (3 out of 5 stars)(lame+dry jokes+veri gayish)
-starbux tmr gals? any1 wanna join?
Any comments?? tag me...thx
signing off
elymra Azaliah
