Tuesday, September 05, 2006
Let me start with what is the meaning of friends.
A person whom one knows, likes, and trusts.
A person whom one knows; an acquaintance.
A person with whom one is allied in a struggle or cause; a comrade.
In a life im living right now there are alot of gadgets that making people easier to communicate. For example it starts with letters, proceed with telephone, den came along handphone, next would be computer like emails. IM and lastly right very now the 'in thing' SMS/MMS. But still people this days failed to communicate or even keep in touch with their friends. Due to wat? Due to their busy work schedule. Well some manage to slot in their free time to go out to hav fun with their friends but some just dun even have time for that. Due to wat? Due to money. Cause of wat? Bills and more bills or simply that person is just a big time shoppers.
Sadly went times are bad then there you are start scanning your handphones to call up your friends just to ease your tension. So there your friend listening to you and yada yada.. So finally you and your friends get to meet up and talk about your problem. After awhile when your problem seem to fade away..back to normal busy life. So the definitation here for friends is Friends are for my listening ear for my problems? Well this are happening..
Next When your friends always asked you out but rarely you would answer YES to them instead a Sorry i cant..coz of this and that. Ok to almost all of your friends would understand your situation but Would you care to plan instead and call up your friends that lets go out since Im free for that particular day? Would you? To some they will but to most NOpe i m very busy lah ..no time for this.
Lastly, i would just want to say that for those people that being busy as an excuse is not acceptable. So if one of the days you yourself are free just call up your friends that you been declining theirs invitation and make plans with them and meet up. You never know when is the last time you would actually able to meet them. So when there is a time, spend time with your friends or even your family. Maybe a phonecall or a chat make a difference...
Cherish the friend that care and concern for you
Share Your good and bad times together (not only just the bad time) O.o
//here some pictures at sentosa i would like to share.. :D cheers\\
//Waiting for the Yellow line Bus\\
//Yam and LianaLin\\
//shades\\
//LianaLin and Me\\
//Blurred but is ok..:D\\
//groupie pic\\
//another groupie pic\\
//Everybody Cheese!!\\
//Star Shape of Friendship\\
//We jus nd a mat,bags,swimwear and flipflops to sentosa\\
// Last pic for the day\\
signing off
Elymra Azaliah
