- Woozy Bloggy -
Saturday, September 02, 2006
Hmm. Okay. First up - Elmyra, please update okay.
Ahakxz. Next.
Blog. After having two ( not so ) personal blog of my own, I've kinda have the taste of the stupid fucked up anonymous strangers who judge the way I write and think. So going into this triplicate blog, it pretty much created a wall around me to be a little decisive over what to write and what to avoid. I mean - I know it pretty much affected those regular bloggers too la, but part of blogging with all these controversy actually ( now that I realized ) forced me to grow up - in a good way that is.
I mean. Bloggers. When you write about something personal, you sorta know what you are getting youself into. It's the risk you yourself took to display your public life. If you could reveal it, you would have to learn to accept the consequences and the fact that your actions might seem wrong to others. Bloghoppers come and go. Bloghoppers are strangers, of course they are there to judge. They don't know you, they just potray you as what you write, and how you write it. All I'm saying, at one point, it's useless blaming them. You are practically drinking poison, and waiting for the other person ( in this case the bloghoppers ) to die. Right?
Get real. It's life. Grow up! C'mon, even you do it. Read the papers, you might not know any shits about anyone or anything, you just tend to be drawn and subsequently believe what you read. Do you know their background? Life? Why judge them then? Everyone is entitled to their own opinions. Again I stress, it's life! Noone can avoid it. Please la, we do not live a life with angels all around.
I know - I've been there. If they are there to annoy you, just let it go. Holding it against them would not bring them forward. The more angst you have, the more joy they get from it. Ever thought of that?
This entry is not to offend, neither is it directed to anyone in specific. I just want people to learn from the mistake and the path that I took in handling these shits. I was stupidly immature back then, and now that I thought about it, it pulled me to shame knowing I could have reacted much better. This I learn - It's not about the sorry state and situation you are in ( i mean - everyone have problems ) , it's about how you handle the situation that really matters.
Keep learning. Keep smiling.
" .You are living your own life, do not let anyone else take over. "
Hmm. Ehem Ehem.
Yah. Now that's done.
Linnie. Hehe, I'm here la. weeeee. Miss me ar?
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